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Were do you believe your experience is coming from?

I was once told that I'm feeling my thoughts, what the heck does that mean I asked? you're always living in the feeling, of the principle of Thought. Sounds deep huh! When we discover the foundational laws or principles being nature or a fact of life, we find that they are constant. Look at gravity, it works one way: the earth always circles the sun not the other way so the statement You're always living in the feeling of the principle of Thought taking form in the moment is pointing to a constant: a fact of life. something you can rely on. This means that we're always living in the feeling of Thought in the moment. It means we're never going to feel anything other than Thought in the moment. While it may *seem* as though we could experience something other than Thought, the truth of the matter is that there are no exceptions. The single most useful question Ive ever learned to ask is this, where do i believe my experience is coming from  While the question ...

7 things to stop small misunderstandings in relationships

Now I don't claim to be a relationship expert and I do love being in a relationship and have been now in a relationship for almost a year with my new partner. I cant say that its easy as Iv always thought relationships if its the right one it should be easy, well news flash you still gotta put effort into it however I'm pretty sure there are some couples that have ultimately found that one and only whom their relationship is seemingly easy. I came across these 7 Mantras to stop small misunderstanding written by Marc Chernoff and so I thought I'd borrow them and share with you all. So the story begins like this. This past December a busy attorney named Valentina and her 10-year-old son, Marco, moved into their new home in New England.  The winter season was already in full effect, and a massive snowstorm swept through the area the morning after they moved, closing all the schools. Although young students like Marco suddenly had the day off from school, Valentina ...

4 Little habits that steal our happiness

Here's a thing, you ultimately become what you repeatedly do, so therefore If your habits aren’t helping you, then they’re hurting you. It’s time to learn from your mistakes rather than be conquered by them, and let your errors be of commission rather than omission. 1 Putting up with the exact daily displeasure's. You cannot stop what has already happened, but you can let it make you stronger and more determined. Looking back at what has been you have two choices, either let it brake you or let it make you The journey to spiritual maturity requires that you review the events in your life to find the wisdom and purpose they contain.  A time comes in your life when you finally get it.  When in the midst of all your fears and old hurts you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere, the voice inside your head cries out – “ENOUGH!” This moment is the turning point that leads you to success and happiness.  So as we draw closer to the new you lets close the door on o...

6 Toxic habits to elliminate....

You know when you got to drive to an unfamiliar place, so you "ok google take me to" and the directions pop up and you begin your journey. You're blasting your favorite playlist from your phone through the car stereo while simultaneously watching your GPS spit out directions and you know, you turn the volume down on the gps voice because its so annoying cutting in and out as you're listening to your music. You can just watch the directions on your phone or your Tom Tom screen right!?. You suddenly get to that one part of the route that’s a tad bit confusing, so what do you do? you lower the volume on your stereo even though it really has no direct impact on the way you see the directions? That is your life.  That radio noise you need to cut out to concentrate?  That’s the needless, energy-sucking noise in your head. Turning down the radio in the car re-energizes your mind and offers you clarity when you need it most. You don’t really think about how or w...

suffering in paradise

So this morning I had a slight situation. The trains were not running from Wimbledon and I had to get to a client in Isleworth for a workshop to review the next steps for our client. Once I found out the trains were not running I texted my colleagues and went back home thinking I may as well make a bad situation good and make the most of the day with my partner. As soon as I got home my colleague called me and basically reamed me out, these clients rely on our ability to stay consistent with our efforts and unless there's a terrorist attack and all roads are blocked, or if there is a death or you're really to ill to come in it is you're responsibility to get to the workshop rather than watch it via Skype or video. The lesson I took from that came in the quote I came across in an email from Jamie Smart.  “As long as you think that the cause of your problem is “out there” —as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering— ...

Understanding life’s ups and downs.

One of the great gifts of life is, life’s ups and down, I remember when I first came across the law of attraction, it was 2005 and I was in what some may have called a moment of weakness. I wasn’t working and I was looking for a way to make money online so I could support my family when this letter came in the mail. I began reading this letter and it read, something like, how would you like to have anything you want at the drop of a thought, what if I told you, you have your own personal genie wow right, the book was called The Secret. I decided I wanted to read this book; the price of the book was $150, to some it may not be much however to us at that time we had little to no money in our pot. There was only one of us working at any given time while the other stayed home with our at the time two beautiful daughters Asia and Lauren we had 1 more child after that, I spoke to my wife and said babe: I wanna buy this book however it cost $150, now my wife is big on...

How to change what you can control (your negative attitude)

Most of our stress comes from the way we respond to a situation or moment, not the way life is. And when you change your attitude, all that extra stress, is gone. There is a real opportunity in every difficult situation to understand yourself more deeply, and also to improve your life. In every situation, there is a negative and there is a positive even when it feels all negative. I encourage you to reflect on past situations where you’ve felt let down – where life’s outcomes were nowhere near as good as you expected. Rather than focusing on the uncontrollable things that were “done to you,” consider instead your part in what went down. For example, perhaps your gut told you not to do something, but you did so anyway. Or maybe you were deceived a second time by the same person, and wish you had let go of the relationship sooner. Or perhaps you just weren’t paying attention and ended up missing out on a great opportunity. I remember a situation when I was living upstate N...